When i try to m.bate... (WOMEN ONLY)?

it's hard to receive my finger up there, of late like the hole's wayy too small. :/
it's complicated to use tampons too
what should i do? if you have not have slex before that may be why and that's clearly normal. use a wad, for now. lurk on the whole slex and m.bating entry for a while too...you want to enjoy the undamaged feel when the time's right and it's not a short time ago some stupid highschool guy you look back when youre not too much elder and say uggh what be i thinking...he was cute but a lavish. m.bating can destroy nerves at hand, especially starting young. trust me. youll thank yourself down the road. a few of my friends and i want adults hadnt been so shy going on for stuff like this beside us when we were basically a little younger
use a wad