When you own sex you bleed right? how long? is it a great deal?

please answer this The first time can be painful when the hymen breaks upon penatration. There can also be some blood. Not adjectives girls bleed (I didn't) and not all girls enjoy pain (I have a whole lot).
The hymen is the bony membrane that sometimes covers the opening to the vagina if you're a virgin. I utter "sometimes" because, even if you haven't had sex, the hymen can do a bit of a disappearing perform due to an overzealous workout at the gym, horseback riding, tampons, and even passionate "sturdy petting" with your boyfriend. (It's not an impenetrable enclosure, anyway, as it has holes to allow menstrual blood to escape.)
For some, the first few times might brand you feel sore, as it's be an unused muscle or even hurt, if you aren't properly lubericated, or if the guy is in a hurry, doesn't arouse you and your body isn't in position.
Relaxing, foreplay, being fully aroused or better however, you having an orgasm FIRST or using a lubricant approaching KY-Jelly or Astro-Glide can help.
If you don't know the answer to this grill, don't have sex.